Priorities...

Everybody is on the move. We are moving forwards, backwards, or maybe even on a treadmill (which I need to do more). The mistake people often make is thinking that the goal in life to stay busy. This kind of thinking traps us and devours our time and efforts. What is important is not whether a person is busy, but whether he is maintaining priorities and progressing. It's the difference between activity and accomplishment.

For those that know me, you know I definitely don't need one more thing to do. Yet, in my crazy schedule, it's important that I maintain family as a priority. I've realized that if I wait for the perfect conditions or situations, I could very well not spend much time with them at all. I pray that in all our pursuits of life...we don't forget what is most important. It would be a shame to have more memories of life and work than we do of our investment in our families. I might even have missed my son's touchdown! There's nothing I like more than seeing my kid's excel in what they love. So, whether it's a touchdown, a kill in volleyball, or a concert...I don't want to miss the memories that will last for a lifetime!

Just thoughts...

Decisions...

Everyday we ALL make decisions. We are confronted with options and it forces to pick one option or the other. I've examined myself and have began to ask some hard questions. Why do I make the decisions I do? Why do I pick one option over the next? Well, I know that I don't have all the answers, but there are some guidelines I am trying to abide by. Here's a few:

- to be decisive and not indifferent
- to take risks over security
- to choose determination over discouragement
- to do for others instead of myself
- to maintain priorities over ambiguity
- to steer instead of merely drifting

If I really want to place myself in the life's destinations that God has for me...then I need to do my part. I pray that I, and all of you, have the strength and courage to always make the RIGHT decisions...

Transition...

Transition...blessing or curse?

As I look ahead to the next several months, transition is about all I see. I had a wonderful conversation with a close friend last night and then spent several hours meditating on the idea of change. Good...Bad??? I came to this conclusion. If we want the things we build to last, we have to build them to change. Change should be a core value in all we do. I think we too often think the things we build should last longer than they do.

So, with all that in mind. I want to begin this new season with this in mind. Change is critical to mission, value, image, and faith. It should be built into the DNA of who we are and what we become. I know that there will be sacrifices along the way, but I think the difficulty experienced and the time spent will reap huge dividends!

Lastly, my mediation reminded me of one of my own core values. The reality that everyone matters and God has called me to leave His imprint on this world. I pray it's significant!!

What Matters Most

Well, it's finally been announced and I am wondering what my new responsibilities will bring. There has been some restructuring in my position and I am giving leadership to our children's department as well as the youth. I'm sure we all try and prioritize our time, but it seems of the essence right now. What do I do first? What will make the biggest impact? Where should I devote the majority of my time? The questions keep coming.

I know that while there will never be enough time in a day to get all the work done, I find myself trying to make sure I take care of what is most important. For me it boils down to relationships...God, family, friends...etc So, I'm on my quest! I'm asking God to bring health to every area of my life. It's great to always know that His hand is NEVER too short.

I need to say something...

Today I have traveled to Memphis, TN to spend some time with my two sisters and my oldest brother. It's rare we are all together, so my wife and family sacrificed for me to spend some time with them. It was great seeing everyone. I wish we could do it more often.

It's been a long time since I have taken the time to write anything. I realize this is short. It's just to let everyone know that I AM still alive. I guess I had to take the time to say something.

What did he say?

I've been attending a conference that is designed to better prepare myself and other district youth directors for the job that we do. Now, I'm sure everyone has experienced what I am getting ready to mention. We have sat and listened to some communicate home runs, while others not so much. I've been here 8 days so far and I definitely know this to be true. =0)

So, what does this mean? It causes me to evaluate myself and my communication skills. Just like many of my readers, my success is directly connected to my ability to communicate clearly. The ability to help someone take a journey and see the benefits of adapting change to their lives. So, what's the key? Rather than rob someone's theory, I'll point everyone in the right direction. I have read Andy Stanley's book, "Communication for a Change" three times. It certainly has made a monster difference in me.

I'll end by saying this, if you are going to take to time to get up in front of people to speak, then have something to say!! We need to be determined to never be satisfied and develop the tenacity it requires to be the best!

Leadership...

The more and more I find myself traveling, the more I realize how important time really is. Let me explain. When you have what appears to be less and less time to accomplish all that needs to be done, it becomes crucial that we begin to prioritize and make the most of every moment.

My thought for today is on leadership. What are we doing to invest in the people around us? Are we making a difference? If we don't, someone will! It might seem like a mountain of a task, but it's easier when we do it together! Check out this video.

Another great day...

Have you ever had the opportunity to regurgitate vision and future plans over and over during the span of a couple weeks? Well, I have had that incredible experience and on this part of my journey, I'm starting to give form to the ambitions God has laid on my heart. In a day and time when most people are looking for ways for others to serve them, I want to create a culture of leaders that are in direct conflict with this very notion. A culture of leaders that find it organic to look beyond themselves and see the big picture. I truly think it's inside of us all; this overwhelming desire to be a part of something much bigger than ourselves. I find myself internally asking so many questions. What does this look like? How can we capture such an idea amongst our leaders? How do we get this started? How do we develop buy in?

So many questions to answer, never the less, another great day...

I was thinking...

As I travel the state of Illinois trying to do my best to promote missions, I have had the opportunity to express some of the thoughts that I have written about in the last few blogs. The whole subject of community and that being on a journey with someone makes it that much more rich. I have to admit, I've been quite blessed by the receptivity. It would appear to me that all of us are looking for genuine relationships. Of course, that's stating the obvious.

So, if that is true (which I believe it is), then why don't we pursue those relationships more often? What is it about us that makes us hold back or stay individualized? Maybe I should take a moment to be transparent and tell on myself. For me, I think the times I have chosen to seclude myself has been directly related to one of two issues. Broadly speaking of course (there's always exceptions to the rule). The first being times that life and ministry are going well. When you are on top of the mountain, it doesn't seem that I need as much help. (Contrary to what my wife thinks...she says I need all the help I can get =0) jk) The second is when I feel like I am strapped for time. We all could be better time managers.

Why mention these things? I think we all should take time to reflect and better understand each other. When I'm on the mountain or strapped for time, it could be the very moment someone needs the most attention. I think I want to allow myself the permission and freedom to see beyond my own circumstance. To realize the times that seem most difficult, could in fact be filled with the riches of memories. I can certainly remember many incredible moments that came at inconvenient times. I pray the Lord brings more...AND that I don't miss it!

I was just thinking...

Who do we invest in...

Wow, it's been way too long since I have sat down to blog. I apologize to all of you who have sent tweets, DM's, and emails. It is nice to know that people are tracking me and want to be a part of my life. I value all of you.

Lately, it's been quite the trip. I've been spending lots of time organizing thoughts and asking God for a fresh since of vision amongst the re-structuring where I work. I believe we are in exciting times. What's made it most exciting has been the conversations that have surrounded the fresh vision. It's been incredible to talk to pastors who are willing to link arms and be a part of something much bigger than themselves. That success has not been limited to the place they lead, but reaches far beyond that. Thank you all for being so selfless.

These conversations have also given me the opportunity to look within. Who am I investing in? Who am I asking to invest in me? These are questions we should all ask. Really, don't we begin to emulate those we surround ourselves with? I am determined more than ever to surround myself with selfless people. Those who care about others more than themselves. Being the optimist that I am, I am convinced we can make the world a better place.

Community...

It's the last day of 2008 and I'm having some final reflections before the beginning of a new year. To say the least, 2009 will prove to be eventful, exciting, and full of change. I thought I would add some thoughts on community this time.

The community I'm talking about is the one when a group of people decide to pursue life together. I guess that is why like blogging and twittering so much. It gives you a snapshot into people lives even though they may live far away. It must be similar to someone's diary, only public. =0) It's been incredible to follow some of the greatest leaders around and experience life with them. I can't wait to see what God will do throughout 2009. Let's pursue life like never before. I don't think any of us should settle for second best. Especially when you have the community it takes to see things we have never seen before.

Family...

So... Yesterday I decided to be completely unplugged and spend time with the family. This was more than my immediate family, it included lots of extended family members. It's something that I should do more often.

I have often listened to others agree that each of us need a break from technology. It seems strange that it has become such a part of everyday life. Whether it be blogging, twittering, or even facebook, they are all time consuming! They take away from the opportunities to spend quality time with the ones you love (border line mushy). Sometimes it's vital to push it all away and just focus on what matters most...family!!!!

Don't forget to unplug sometime this holiday season and spend some QT with someone you love!

Self-Worth...

It's been an amazing few days as God continues to challenge my thinking in so many areas. I can't imagine my life without the constant interruptions that He provides.

Today's thought is pretty simple. I was challenged with the idea of self-worth. Where does it come from and why? Do I have value because of what I accomplish? Some would say yes. However, is there something so much more that we are missing.

I know for myself, I often evaluate my day according to what tasks I have completed and how many of those items were checked off my list. I'm pretty sure that's not the place God wants me to find my value or self-worth. I guess it goes back to the beginning when God looked at Adam and said he was going to have to work for a living (paraphrased). I can't imagine what that moment must have been like.

Since then we have had such a skewed understanding of where our value comes from. The reality is, there's neither enough that we can do, nor enough that we could have that would equal value. Truth is, our value comes just being ourselves, you know, the person God created you to be. God enjoys the simple interactions! He looks at us and would say we are all priceless!!

The Merging of Two Generations...

Recently I was challenged by someone regarding the vast differences in the culture today as compared to 10-20 years ago. Today we tvo whatever we want to watch, then watch it at our convenience. I know this will date me, but I remember the days when we had a black and white TV and I was my dads remote control. Talk about crazy!?!

I honestly feel like it's a mantle that I carry. The mantle of bridging two generations that are nothing alike. It's impossible to understand each other because their lifestyles are COMPLETELY different. Let me mention just a few: CEO vs. Team styles of leadership, lecture vs. image driven presentations, and even overhead transparencies (which were advanced for their time) vs. multi-projector/screens. Come on now, today we are using high definition video camera compared to the 8mm films that no one could afford. How do we merge these two cultures?

It's in the picture...one exists because of the other. It's amazing to see the product that comes from the merging of generations. I wish young leaders would give more honor to those who have paved the way for them. Likewise, I wish some older leaders would be open and willing to try new methods. It speaks to the leadership principle that I mentioned a few blogs ago. If you want to build something that lasts, you have to be willing to change what you build. We can't expect something to last forever without allowing it to evolve.

What's the answer? I feel honored to have the opportunity to try and help the merging of two generations...

What should I do?...

Christmas is right around the corner and I'm trying to decide what to do.

Curiosity is getting the best of me. How many out there are going to go "unplugged" for Christmas day. That means no net, twitter, blogs, or anything else. I mean how I do find out what everyone is getting? I don't know what I should do.

So, take a minute and respond through twitter (direct message if you choose) or comment on this blog. You can even email if you should choose. What will you be doing?

What should I do?...

Timeless...

I thought I would add some more thoughts regarding the subject a few days ago. The blog was about being "on the journey together". There's been quite a bit rush through my mind over the last couple weeks. Mostly, an inner voice calling out to me to spend my time doing the things that are timeless. For example, the investment made in people is timeless. Regardless of distance, can people really be separated? I know I am on the brink of being mushy and thank God, that's not my personality. Think about it though, there's not enough miles to separate people who care for one another. I find myself wanting to be a part of that culture. The culture where people come first. A culture where I keep my mind on the eternal and not the temporary. Oh well, just thoughts...I guess!?!

I'll end by saying I want to be a part of something much bigger than myself. Part of something that brings life and not death. Spending my energy on what is timeless...

Random Thoughts Pt. 2...

I'm not sure why I'm doing this again, but I thought I would offer some more random thoughts. I didn't received any feedback regarding small towns, so maybe if I mention some thoughts on leadership, I'll get A response. =0) By the way, the picture has nothing to do with the blog. I just thought my back yard looked scenic this morning. You can't really see the snow falling, but it was beautiful!

Okay, back to some random thoughts about leadership:

1. There's four factors in keeping a vibrant relationship with God (I'm sure there's more, but these are my four). They would include reading His Word, praying, community with each other, and serving Him with each other.

2. When considering the different angles and voices we speak from. I think it is more important to speak from a voice of selflessness, than a voice that HAS to be heard.

3. I always have to keep in perspective that I impact the non-christians view of God.

4. Helping people experience God is just as important, if not more important, than the context of God.

5. This one is for the control freaks out there. The only thing we can control in a given situation is ourselves.

6. For us to build something that lasts, we always have to be willing to change what we build. We have the tendency to think something should last longer than it does.

7. There's three true statements about momentum: we have it, we're losing it, or we've lost it.

8. We have to train ourselves to be future thinkers. It's vital we don't always evaluate things through the lens of the past.

9. Relevance is being close to the issue at hand.

10. It doesn't take a leader to kill something that's failing; it DOES, however, take a leader to change and turn around something that is not working.

These are from a variety of lessons I have attained from other leaders, as well as some of my own.

I would be interested in push back and comments on these as well!

Random Thoughts...

I've had a friend of mine write blogs which are quite often labeled "Random Thoughts". So, I thought I would share a few of my own. I would have photoshopped the picture and put my face in it if I had more time. These are for small towns...

Well, here I go:

1. When a machine breaks at the drycleaners, it means you won't get your clothes back for at least two weeks!

2. People find it productive to advertise on the local gas station sign.

3. When local businessmen go on vacation, it's mentioned in the newspaper. That way people know when they can eat there again. =0)

4. If your grass is higher than 4 inches, the police can come write you a citation.

5. People gather for local delicacies...rocky mountain oysters.

6. People you don't know show up at your door, come in, and seem to never leave.

7. The highlight of shopping in town is the local Walmart.

8. People gather at the town square on Friday's during football season to eat porkchop sandwiches. (local fundraiser) They ARE good!!

9. The local theater has two screens to show movies. Of course the second one is a big screen TV.

10. Last, but not least, even though you purchase your home, you don't own it for 20 years. You are always referred to as living in the previous owners house. I live in the Luttman's house...=0)

All these are hilarious, but COMPLETELY true. I'm interested in some of your comments.

On the Journey Together...

As I sit here typing, I find myself feeling extremely blessed. Although I realize I haven't written much in the last week besides tweets on twitter, I have not been lost to reflect and begin to count my many blessings that God has provided. Even though I could begin to give name to each of them, I have decided to give attention to a thought, rather than a specific blessing.

I've always considered life to be journey. In fact I look at my relationship with God much the same way. When I begin to look at my blessings in this context, I begin to realize just how rich a life that I have been granted. What has made my life rich has not been possessions. It's been the wide variety of people that God has given me favor to experience life with. It still amazes me how a song or a smell can bring back the most vivid of memories. The memories experienced but for a moment, however, will last in my mind and heart for a lifetime.

If you're reading this, it could be very possible that some of my memories include you. I want to take a moment to say thank you. Thank you for making my life rich! In the myriad of thoughts that quickly pass by, I don't want to forget what has made my life special. What has made my journey special is the people I've been able to share it with.

So, if you happen across this blog, take a moment to appreciate each of your blessings. I know that God's greatest blessing often come in the strangest of packages. Yet, I think that is what makes them so spectacular! Thank you Lord for my Journey and the many friends that I have shared it with!!!

It about being "on the journey together"!

Traveling again...

Today is one of my last trips for the 2008 year. Traveling has certainly become part of the common day in and day out activities. At least I get to bring my wonderful wife with me this time.

I am off to Columbus, OH for convention and camp planning. I will have the opportunity to connect with other directors from across the United States to hear and discuss what is working best.

I have to come to understand that effectiveness is usually connected to one's willingness to listen to other people and their experience. Wouldn't we all be better people if we could learn more from listening than having to experience it for ourselves. I pray I am able to walk away with tons of ideas of how to connect students better to God's plan for their lives.

Crazy, but I'm traveling again...